Grid shouldn't be a singleton

There is not just always one grid of a type, or one grid per typetag/problem. So the grid shouldn't be implemented as a singleton.

The gridcreator / gridwrapper needs to be available to problems (boundary conditions) and spatial params (params from dgf/msh) for parameters. We could pass a shared_ptr to the problem / spatialparams in the constructor.

All occurances of GridCreator::grid() should be replaced by either gridView.grid() or using a grid object directly (adaptive).

see also !185 (merged)