Avoid using undesired convergence criterion

What this MR does / why does DuMux need it:

Since EnableShiftCriterion is the default convergence criterion, it should be checked after the criteria that might be selected by user in input file are checked. Otherwise, it could be the case that despite choosing another criterion by user, still EnableShiftCriterion is checked first in the code and is used as the convergence criterion.

A new parameter called SatisfyResidualOrShiftCriterion is introduced, that user can set if either residual or shift criterion is desired. Such a condition could also be met before by setting both EnableShiftCriterion and EnableResidualCriterion to true, which was confusing and could lead easily to mistakes.

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