Adjust opts file to CMake, update existing files.

Opts files for autotools are renamed to autotools-*.opts,
outdated flags were removed.
(reviewed by martinb)


git-svn-id: svn://svn.iws.uni-stuttgart.de/DUMUX/dumux/trunk@14364 2fb0f335-1f38-0410-981e-8018bf24f1b0